Fruitful Days....

fruitful days are here,
all are here not there.
fruitful days has come,
you create it here not there.
fruitful days may be slow,
but the gains you earn last more.

fruitful days just like the air,
always here not far away.
fruitful days are not always seen,
where wisdom and discipline lack.
fruitful days are not always clear,
senses must smell it near.

fruitful days we all await,
not all sees when it comes.
fruitful days make me and you,
nature needs us to make it work.
fruitful days wont walk away,
if we hold on to our faith and work.

fruitful days your waves we feel,
who feels and not tap from it.
fruitful days is all we need,
feel it and embrace it all.
fruitful days are everyday,
since everyday is a good day.

My Mother,My Friend.

My Mother, My Friend,
The only woman that truly cares.
My Mother,My Friend,
The only one that forever cleaves.
My Mother,My Friend,
The only one that never leaves.


My Mother, My friend.
When all fails,she still remains,
My Mother,My Friend.
When the clouds are dark,my light,
My Mother,My Friend.
When the storms attack,my peace.


My Mother, My Friend,
She is her husband's pride.
My Mother, My Friend,
She is her children's jewel.
My Mother, My Friend
She is my treasure,not to be sold.

My Mother, My Friend,
Let the world hail my priceless pearl.
My Mother, My Friend,
Let grace embrace and comfort her.
My Mother, My Friend,
Let my creator,bless and reward her.

Dedicated to my Stainless Mum 
and all great mothers in the world,
this very day.........
Happy Mothering Sunday

Love,Across The Miles .........

Sweetness, can i call you tomorrow? He asked,yes dear,call me tomorrow. Baby i miss you more than words can say. I thought you would be home this Xmas you know. Am so lonely..she said. Yes baby girl,i know. i will visit Africa soon i promise. Just send me the list of all the stuffs you need so i can get them for you when am coming. i promise i won't disappoint this time. he pleaded"OK. She agreed"Its just that i miss u. Its been 3 years. That's a very long time you know. Its not just right and my parents are beginning to get worried. my younger sister is getting married next month and everyone thinks something is wrong with me. She replied. Baby,its fine. I will be with you soon enough, am gonna get you the latest Bentley. Sweetheart,let's make love on the phone. Baby, are u there. I have missed you the whole day could you please tell me something sweet. "He kept teasing" Baby are u there. He asked again". Yes am here. She replied.I guess you are been all emotional. I have to go, i will call you later tonight so i can hear that sexy voice of yours alright. Alright!! She replied. I love you the mother of my unborn kids,he teased..... I love you too she replied and the line went DEAD....

Distance relationship is the prolonged absence of one's partner which brings about a bridge in the normal expected communication. This is said to be one of the highest factors contributing to infidelity,failed and unhappy marriages all over the world. In as much as out of sight may not be out of heart,long distance syndrome dissipates the passion in a relationship if no effort is made for correction or if the absence goes beyond negotiation.

Love across the miles entails both partners living apart as a result of certain circumstances such as a Job,studies,greener pastures or maybe out of compulsion. Distance could be miles,countries away,states,oceans or continents away and increases the chances of infidelity,risky behaviors with anxiety,depression,lack of concentration,loss of trust and fatigue.

Love across the miles is on the increase and we need to monitor and evaluate ourselves if we are in such a relationship since it can be either avoided or neglected; if you don't value that relationship. If you are not willing to move when all the chances has been weighed and the arrow is pointing your direction,then you are wrong!!!

As sad as it may sound nowadays couples successfully love across the miles with the husband across the miles,the wife runs her career like the German machine,with both faced with the chances of cheating,flings or office romance. They have and raise kids with a nanny at their beck who in most cases passes the wrong messages to their young minds. How can a rarely home mum play the role of a father and a mother without getting the kids confused. The everyday "come and talk to daddy" thing is not just enough. He comes home once in a year to spend a week or two which would also be used to visit other extended families. The role and presence of parents play important part in the life of the children. its not by taking them to big schools or vacations abroad.

There is a clear difference between a trip and the absence of a partner. No amount of making up is ever enough.

Parenthood and relationship is a call,don't answer if u are not ready. Marriages and relationships get harder as partners exchange toy gifts,same sex relationship is on rapid increase,yes and we all agree that everything is fine. No! A toy can not replace a human,someone you to love is just irreplaceable. If you want a relationship,forget people,pull out all your emotions,be ready and willing to protect it, its yours.

Distance conceal a lot of things that may be happening, some habits and characters that can keep you living in a fools paradise. You may get into love across the miles and may never wake up to understand the wasted years.

Relationships has gone beyond voice notes,emails and phone calls. Its all hands on deck, let's make it work not walk. you may never know what people in distance relationships go through.you don't wanna know i bet you.

Prepare your minds,start seeing beyond the hidden agendas and start working towards a Godly relationship,start giving in your best,be willing and ready to sacrifice all you can now when you can. Look above the Barrytone voice and showered gifts.

Every good thing comes with time,let love be your religion and not just a word because a divorce is an amputation that leaves a permanent scar, open for all to see.

The Born Again...........

Zara Eni is a prolific writer, a HIV Counseling and Testing counselor (HCT),
an adolescent Reproductive health Ambassador,
works with a leading HIV/AIDS NGO in Abuja, Nigeria.

She is a singer, a motivational speaker and a blogger.



"Stand up…" your mother is here to see you” came the voice of Ebere, the most horrible voice I have heard in the past 2 months her voice came like a roaring thunder, like a bile in my tongue causing me to feel even more nauseous. I couldn't stop wondering why she can’t be nice. No!!! I can’t pull through this with this damned woman. For God sake I think she is not just encouraging and doesn't also know her job description. I have been ill for days and haven’t been eating well though I felt so weak and hungry these days. My period has been on leave and has refused to start work in the past few weeks. My mum sure visits every now and then but sometimes I just feel like seeing no one but myself. With the very last strength left in me, I managed to stagger up and out of the room. I walked briskly like I was going to fall but I still managed to find myself and hold my feet. My mum looked deep asleep though she was awake; all her smiles were gone with the wind though she still found a way to force them out in response to mine. She is basically the only one that sticks and doesn't wither amidst all storms of life. “Hi, mum, good morning. I managed to say, my princess ‘she called, what is wrong with you? Why have you refused to let go of the past, she asked.mum you know am trying, am going to be fine soon, ok! We will pull through this together and I will be out of here soon enough. We will all be happy again.” I consoled’ .mum gave me a warm hug, one thing that gets me going this critical moment. She’s my jewel of inestimable value. She looked at me, held my hand and right there before her, I started throwing up. When I finally looked up, the look on her face scared me to death as the most terrifying question came; Olaedo, ARE YOU PREGNANT? Like an arrow soaked in the venom of a black mamba, it pierced my soul. I couldn't look up; I could not speak.cry or even blink. Mum busted into tears and I heard the word, "time up, to your cell",came the voice of Ebere. I moved back to my darkness, my silence, the very echo of my own voice. I cried for the very first time since I came to the cell. It dawned on me that my life was on a compound pendulum, that if I didn't talk as soon as possible I may lose it all. Now my mum is heartbroken, friends have taken long walks and apparently I was only left with family. Alone with my thoughts, I slept off even without opening the food.
I was woken up by cries from the general cell; an inmate just died but that wasn't new anymore. More died everyday and most times we don’t even know what day or time of the day it was. We just lived one day at a time. Tomorrow I will appear in court for the first time, for murder. I had mixed feelings and thoughts, committing suicide, carrying the baby of a rapist. I thought of my parents, my mum, my dad, my siblings and everyone I knew. In here am alone, no family or friends. Sometimes I don’t speak to anyone for days. I haven’t even spoken to my lawyer yet. My room was cold, mum wanted me to stay alone; I don’t want my baby to mix up with all those criminals she would say. But dohhh, we are all criminal. We are all in uniforms, we are all in chains and we are all in jail. I had my meal in silence and just as I was about to take a nap, my lawyer’s presence was announced. Olaedo how are you doing? “She asked”. Am fine ma.”I replied”, my name is Barrister Bola Bayo your new lawyer and you have to tell me about it all before we can face the court tomorrow. I heard you refused to talk to any of the old lawyers but you need to understand that you have been here for two months already and your silence will only activate more number of days. Please the warder you need to excuse us, I need some privacy with my client. ’Bola walked Ebere out of the room. I saw the look on her face as she walked out of the room. I took a deep sigh of relief as I watched her move her heavy body. Now Olaedo, talk to me, am all ears now, what exactly happened on that faithful day. In the most sober reflection, I began my story, the story that changed my life forever… so did you hit him in the head, ‘she asked’, Barrister I didn't hit him so I don’t know anything about the internal brain injury; ’I sobbed. Tears rolled down my face and I wiped my cheeks with the back of my palm, it then dawned on me that I was oozing seriously, I was smelling so differently; all the alluring scents from Elizabeth Arden, Victoria secrets and cupcakes from bodycology cologne were all gone. She listened to me and took note of every word I said. She encouraged me to be honest, strong and confident in court as that will boost my freedom chances with the judge.

I was found guilty of man slaughter under self defense during sexual abuse, and I was sentenced to 3 years imprisonment without a parole. I had my baby in jail and was faced with the trauma of living without her. Rainbow was not a prisoner and could not remain in jail with me, all thanks to my mum and family members. Family indeed is the greatest gift of love. She was sweet and pretty. It was my birthday and my family visited. Kelvin came with them to my greatest surprise and I was excited. I haven’t seen him in 2 years i heard he travelled out and I was in jail, that’s crazy. Wasted years!! He became a regular visitor and I got to know Sandra was married, Olu relocated and Michael was running his masters abroad. I was doing well in jail oh, but the outside world will have been a better option. My mum, Kevin and a few family members where there for me. I looked forward to my freedom and it finally came faster than I thought. I was set free, free indeed.

I was released after 3 years; of course Rainbow was 2 years old already. I came home to a surprise welcome party hosted by Kelvin. It was my first occasion in 3 years and it was worth while as I got to meet friends and family I haven’t seen in a while. Right there at the party, Kevin proposed to me, my joy knew no bounds as I accepted and was getting ready to pick up the pieces of my life again. My life started falling into place again, I went back to school, rounded up and got good job then I got married to Kevin. He led me to Christ right from my days in jail and I bet you there is no better position than the wife of a pastor, We were pastors with our different jobs and God was so merciful to us all. We had just Rainbow for a while but after two years, we were blessed with a set of twin angelic boys. My heart went afloat with joy. My husband was out of the country and we were expecting him that same day. My daughter had been down with typhoid and malaria with just my mum to take care of her as she clung to grandma’s arms when Kevin walked in and the atmosphere changed. Lots of family and church members were walking in and out of my room. Lots of bags for the kids and for me. I was asked to sleep as I was given some pain killers and I remember dreaming of having a wonderful family dinner. I slept the whole day and woke up later in the evening.


I was worried and had to ask the Doctor how my kids were doing. Your boys are fine and your daughter I doing well too. She’s responding now, her father gave her some blood so she’s picking up, the fever is low now. The doctor replied. I slowly sank into my bed without word, how could AB give blood to blood group O? That’s not possible. I thought for a while and asked the doctor, only to confirm Kevin was the same blood group with Rainbow. I busted into tears, God let this not be true please. the pain is too much for me to bear.Kevin couldn't deny it, Jide drugged me for Kevin to get laid for the first time. Jide and I had been very good friends since we got into school. it was a clique thing, him, myself, Olu, Kevin, Sandra, Funmi and Michael. I wasn't ready for anything serious since we all rolled together, it was his birthday and we all visited, had fun and partied but how I woke up in his bed was unexplained. I didn't say a word because I met Sandra in his room with Olu. i don’t take alcohol so what exactly happened to me. My thought went to and fro as I went back to my apartment that day but while I was having my bath, I noticed I had been raped and sexually abused, my pant was torn with semen all over the genitals. I lost my mind and dressed up straight back to his house. There was another fight going on already. Sasha one of the hottest girls on campus had already turned his house inside out. On seeing me they got even more deranged. Her voice tempo increased, so she is the tramp you locked me out for, oh she’s the one, Sasha asked. I looked at her and managed to mutter a WHAT? Olaedo you are a tramp, what have you come here to do, I thought you claimed to be a virgin, so what are you here for; came the voice of the one that defiled me. My brain went reverse and all i did was pick up the knife on the table and rushed over to him and stabbed him, and he started beating me blue black before suddenly he screamed holding his head then he fell. Sasha took to her heels…all my testimonies in court was like flogging a dead horse, no one believed me, I had no witnesses, no one to talk to or confide in, so I faced my music alone, I sang alone, danced alone and cheered myself alone too.

I have been living with the man who changed my story.How do I tell other women to save their marriages when I don’t have mine, I have been betrayed to the latter. Kevin laid me without a condom that faithful night, Jide died, I got pregnant, I went to jail as a criminal, he wasted 3 years of my life and gave his own life to Christ, became a pastor and converted me to Christ then married me to feel good about himself. God!!! Mba nu, this is out of it this time. Am not for his self-gratification or an object of Kevin righteousness.

The wasted years of pain, agony, labor pains, natal blues, depressions, what happens to them. How do I fix the broken heart and all those lonely moments of three solid years? Is it the lost academic year…the court sessions….my family,my peace.....

NO!!!!!!! Help!!!!! I am a born again Christian, I have paid my dues, I give and sow seeds, I pay my tithe, I pray to God and I also forgive…but living with him is like going into another jail with worse labor. Rainbow, Daniel and David are doing great in school now but Kevin hasn't stopped coming. I walked away because that is the only way out, the cross is too long for me to bear, the wrapper Is too long and the long walk to freedom Is taking years. Truth be told, I miss my marriage, I miss the man I married, I miss the family I built, I miss my happiness but you may never know how hard and painful these things could be…until you wear my shoes.

Millennium development goals in the lives of young people

The Millennium development goals were officially established by the United Nations under the UN-secretary Kofi Annan in the year 2000 And involved the 193 united Nations member countries. It was set with the eight goals which includes;poverty And hunger eradication, Universal primary Education,gender equality And women empowerment, reducing maternal mortality, Reducing Child mortality, combating Hiv/Aids with malaria And other diseases, Environmental sustainability And Global partnership for development.

The main aim of the Millennium development goals was to encourage And improve the social, health, economic And educational sectors of developing countries. The millennium development goals actually evolves through the lives of every individual in every country especially the young people as they affect,define,influence And effect their lives as the case may be. According to the World Health Organisation (WHO),a young Person is any individual between the ages of 9-30years which makes up about 40% of any country's population.Every young person is entitled to quality education,adequate health care, favorable economic And environmental condition And gender equality. If proper knowledge is not instilled in any average young person,we would be faced with high crime rate,high maternal mortality And child mortality,decreased fertility rate,increased gender inequality,epidermic outburst of diseases like HIV/Aids, tuberculosis, malaria,Sexual transmitted diseases,teenage pregnancy And of course increase in Abortion rate.
Every country needs to understand that every young person who is in a stable economic,health And environmental condition will be faced by less societal related issues And this can primarily be achieved through education and giving them the correct information. It begins with the federal government,the state,the local government,the wards,the schools,the religious houses. it begins with you And me,it begins with us.
Remember,an educated youth,is a healthy youth And a healthy youth is a wealthy youth. Let's do it,we can!

TELL THEM THE TRUTH .......

Am on my way…..but you haven’t had your bath.

Am in Lagos right now……but you are in Abuja.

I don’t have a boyfriend……but you are engaged.

I need a serious girlfriend……but you are married.

I went to Dubai last week……but you've never boarded a flight.

We only eat rice in my house……but you barely feed trice a day.

My son schooled  in Harvard……but you know its not true.

All these and more are the common lies both young and old tell their friends, family and well wishers every now and then. Sure, honesty is very expensive and you don’t expect it from cheap people.

Lying means deceit, falsehood, voluntary error or a deliberate untruth. People tell all sorts of lies daily and defend them and here are the few reasons why people lie. People lie in defense, to protect other lies, to manipulate other people, to win a prize or title, for power, to cheat or for self gratification.

Honesty is the best policy as Lying has a lot of physical, mental and spiritual adverse effects. It puts anyone into psychological instability, spiritual deformation and can be a mental hazard to the general well being which could lead to minor health issues like headache, sore throat, mood swing, depression and of course, increases the level of the dreaded stress or fatigue.

An average human lies at least eleven times in seven days and with the fact that a lie gives branches to other lies, it hereby increases the heart rate, tension and blood pressure rapidly. For instance, you planned telling your boss a lie this morning, and you walk into his office, told him the false outcome of that meeting and then he throws you a question. Instead of giving him an answer, your pulse increases, you are tensed up already, you can hear your heart beat and you feel so uneasy. Your sweat glands become hyper reactive and at sometime it feels like you are going to faint……..

wawoooh!!!! you need to STOP LYING…..

The very first step to reducing your lying skills is to first make up your mind on a personal ground that you have decided to be honest, to anyone no matter how sad thing turn out to be, hereby by cutting down your lying skills drastically yet gradually. This is a decision you alone can make for yourself; you and no one else. Then you must try as much as possible to mingle only with people who encourage you to tell the truth at all times.  With the wrong company and associates you can only get worse and you must believe me that lying robs you of your inner peace of mind.

Live a positive life, stand for what is right and don’t let the world stop you. Believe it or not, you can be honest, you can be faithful, you can be joyful, peaceful and of course you can make a difference. 

Anything is possible if you remove the ‘T’ and say I CAN, so when next you want to speak to anyone, be it your spouse, family, friend ,colleague or just anyone, just multiply the ‘T’ by four and TELL THEM THE TRUTH………..

The Difference Between A Boy And A Man

A BOY keeps a password on his cellphone  While a MAN is confident enough to say "Baby can u answer that for me"!! A BOY runs the streets & chill with his friends While a MAN is enjoying time with his woman planning ahead for their future!   A BOY complains about spending too much time with his woman,A MAN plans vacations & getaways because he is wise enough to notice tomorrow isn't promised! A BOY has pride after arguments A MAN has heart & emotions. A BOY beats on his woman, A MAN massages & caresses his woman! A BOY will Tell his friends and people how BAD his Woman is, A MAN will say nice things About his Woman because he knows NOBODY is Perfect. A BOY tells his woman all the things she does wrong, A MAN acknowledges his woman's hard work and over look her errors! A BOY tells his woman she is sexy A MAN tells his woman she is beautiful! A BOY thinks all domestic jobs are for women, A MAN helps his Woman both at home and outside. A BOY thinks all the MEN who comment on a girl's PIX\write up is her Boyfriend but A MAN knows that a beautiful lady must have admirers and she can't date them. A BOY loves ABORTION,A MAN loves CHILDREN. A BOY envy his Woman, A MAN support his WOMAN. A BOY don't take care of his Woman but still want her to look GOOD, A MAN takes care of his Woman because he knows if he doesn't another MAN will do it. A BOY lie at all times, A MAN tells the TRUTH and Beg for forgiveness if Need be. A BOY is always fighting, A MAN makes PEACE. A BOY will read this & think this is about him, A MAN will read this & thoroughly acknowledge what he needs to fix in his relationship. ♥ Do you agree with this? send your comments,lets talk it through!

Six Steps To Achieving Your Set Goals

Write it down –The moment you write something down, it suddenly becomes alive. Outline your aspirations in a notebook and keep that notebook beside your bed so that you never forget. Remind yourself of your targets by placing ‘post-it’ notes in visible places. For example, if you are trying to lose weight or trying to get a job, you could stick a note on your computer screen reminding you to apply for jobs or a note on your mirror reminding you to exercise.

Stay focused – Set your eyes on your target and never lose focus. The moment you do, you become like a blind man struggling to find his way at night in the  popular  market. Distractions could come in the form of judgmental friends, annoying strangers, failure and even success. Believe it or not, if you meditate too much on failure or success, you may never move forward. Stay focused on your goal.

Manage your time wisely – Many of us wish there was more than 24 hours in a day because the day’s activities seem so overwhelming. The best way to overcome this feeling is to plan your day ahead of time. Write down what you intend to accomplish that day and try to stick with it. Remember, procrastination is a dream killer. Do not procrastinate.


Break your dream into smaller goals – To make your dream more achievable, break it into smaller pieces. For instance, let’s say you plan to start a company and you have calculated that it might take you two to five years to become an established brand, break it down into months. Outline what you could accomplish or what skills you could obtain in one month that would enable you reach your dream.

Change your lifestyle or your friends – Get rid of any extra baggage that may prevent you from realizing your goals. An unhealthy lifestyle of drugs, sex and alcohol will not get you very far;  it might even kill you before you begin. Liberate yourself from the bad influences and blabbermouths you call your friends (if that’s what they are). They are a pessimistic lot and would surely discourage you from achieving your aspirations.

Reward yourself – Anytime you achieve your main goal or a part of it, reward yourself. Take a day off and go out with friends, watch a movie, go shopping or just stay indoors and make yourself a special meal. It will boost your self esteem.

However, don’t stop there, keep going.............move forward

A Letter from God To Wives

Dear Daughter

I have sent you to a man's house to be a blessing to him and 'help' him achieve the goals I gave him. He's not like you at all. He's burly, quite insensitive. You'd be surprised he might not even realize you've come to help! So, to help your task and protect you from being on the receiving end of his imperfections here are some vital instructions.

1. Don't ever try to fix him, if he ever develops a fault, I'm his manufacturer and you will need to talk to me about him. You're his wife, not his God. I don't particularly like it when you think you can change him and you attempt to take my place.

2. Well, I'm your God too, but your husband is my deputy in your life. To get the best of him, you need to respect him like you do me. Get more instructions on this from your grandmother Sarah.

3. You will realize that he fumbles in many things. I know you're smart but resist the urge to get in front of him and take charge of things except he tells you to.

4. He's a man of God but he's still a man. Remember an hungry man is an angry man whether the hunger is for food or sex.  Don't you ever play politics with him on those issues.

5. He likes competing and winning, that's why he's crazy about sports. But there's an area he doesn't mind you being better- character! So take advantage, be a better lover, more humble, more patient, more virtuous.

6. He enjoys attractive help mates, quite more than is good for him. As you get into helping him, don't forget to stay attractive as much as possible. I know its a tough task but I know you can do it, you're a woman after all.

I'd give you more instructions later but these are vitally important and can't wait. Whatever you face there, never forget why you're there. If you keep your eyes on the goal of being a blessing to him, sooner than later he will come to adore you. Remember, its a cord of three;me,you and your husband. Meanwhile, keep in touch with me in prayer. If you've ever needed my help you will certainly need it on this assignment!

With Everlasting Love,

God.

Board A New Ship Please!!!!

*•.¸♥ •*¨*•¸♥
Don’t be afraid of a New Relationship
Liken it to boarding a new Ship Exciting, new things to enjoy and explore.
Like Two walking together through a new open door.
Don’t shy away from a New Relationship.
The pain of the past needn’t make you quit In life, sometimes we get it wrong.
At other times, we find a bond so strong.
Don’t run away from a New Relationship.
Hold on tight, don’t lose a grip.
Let go of the past and move on.
Bask in the presence of your new Loved one.
Don’t give up on a New Relationship.
Invest, time, love and Romance in it.
So? You did it before, your partner didn’t care?
This is a New one, don’t be biased, be fair.
I was once afraid of a New Relationship..
Couldn’t get myself to relax one bit.
Always waiting for something to go wrong any minute And then,
 I could justify leaving it.
So, I plead, stay in your New Relationship.
Give it a chance to bloom.
Don’t quit!
Love, trust and support your Other Half Step by step.
May life lead you to Love’s blissful path.
Wishing you happiness as the water covers the sea.

Great Relationship Tips.............

Hello my beautiful people,here are some generalized tips on how to make good and lasting relationship.

Listen to your beloved.

Try to show tolerance and be open-minded. Avoid showing sarcasm and negativity.
In general, anything that can cause you a bad mood or her bad mood should be avoided.
You should learn to give as well as to take - to give or take is not the answer, only a combination of the two in equal measure.
Try to make your partner's parents like you. It is very important for both of you.
Learn to give unconditionally. To expect always something in return is the same as paying for something.
Avoid being too emotional in your everyday life. It can be especially applied to males. You will have to convince your beloved that you are strong; that you are self-confident; that you know what to do; and that she can rely on your emotional strength to be a help for her.
Kindness, understanding, trust and consideration are the keywords in relationships. If you are only trying to derive benefit from these relationships, forget about mutual understanding.
In every relationship it is important to be a good and reliable friend. If you are your beloved's understanding friend, she/he will be grateful and rewarding.
Don't let anyone treat you abusively. Demand respect.
If your relationships are established, you should carry on showing your beloved that you love and appreciate him/her. It is not difficult. You can do this by little things as buying flowers and small presents from time to time.
Beware of possessiveness and claiming behavior. Keep in mind that your partner is as independent as you are and should never be treated as an object or possession.
Don't let other people push your buttons. Otherwise you won't be able to make any decision by yourself.
Learn to adjourn your recompense through patience, trust and understanding.
Try to see your partner's point of view. Agree to disagree.
Respect your partner's space.
Wishing you the best of relationship and all the blessed rewards that comes with it.

IS IT THAT ............

Is it that the world is not large,
   Or that we have made it too small for us.
Is it that the truth is so hard,
   Or that we lift our ego so high.
Is it that our eyes are shut blind,
   Or that we chose to watch things fall apart.
Is it that the wise have gone dumb,
   Or that their words are blown in the air.
Is it that the good don't talk,
   Or that their raised voice is always their last.
Is it that power kills the conscience,
   Or that we trade our conscience for power.
Is it that our Chi is just silent,
   Or that we have not sat,to watch And pray.
Is it that the cost of peace is far fetched,
  Or that we prefer war that costs us all.
Is it that our hair And skin is black,
  Or that we don't even love ourselves; the black.
Is it that love has failed today,
  Or that most love for the silver,gold And all.
Is it that the child won't learn the norms,
  Or that we spare the Rod And spoil the Child.
Is it that the laws made are not kept,
  Or that the law makers bend to break the law.
Is it that true wisdom has seized to flow,
  Or that we don't see it And flow with it.
Is it that the change has refused to come,
Or that we don't see need to change ourselves.
 True wisdom is knowing you know nothing.
 The only time is now.
Make that change,now!!!

WHAT IF............

what if you slept And never woke up,
What if you had A  meal And it was your last,
What if you went on A  trip And never returned,
What if you never achieved your life purpose,
What if you never got married to anyone,
What if you got married to A  lousy spouse,
What if you are happily married but childless,
What if you were rich but unhappy,
What if you don't even know where you're going,
What if you were poor but full of wisdom,
What if you fought A  battle And never won,
What if you were told today was your very last,
What if you failed And had no second chance,
What if you were betrayed by the one you trust,
What if you watched your loved one die,
What if your only way was war,will you fight?
What if your last option was murder,will you kill?
Life is full of puzzles,sizzles And drizzles.
We make choices in every second.We risk options.
We risk And lose friends,family And a lot.
Now I  ask you,is your choice worth your loss.
If its worth it then choose And loose.
but every choice we make shapes our life