Most People, after breaking-up a relationship, find it hard to give in 100% love and trust into the their next relationship stating that " all girls/guys are the same". People should know that if the right person has not come, the relationship will not always work. Therefore we shouldn't close our eyes for the bad people to pass, because when the good one will pass, we will won't be aware.
Below are 5 tips that will help you to fashion a better relationship to a second love.
* Learn to Forgive and Forget:
Try to forget about the ills of the last relationship and forgive any anormallies to free your yourself rest of mind. It will also help you to think ahead and fashion out a good plan for yourself against the next relationship you want to have.
* Identify your Defects and Work on it:
It is only a dishonest person that will say he doesn't have his fault during a relationship. There are one or two things you will need to work on to make improve the next relationship you are prospecting. Do you thinks you did not take her out on special days, do you always act strange on him, do you nag a lot on her or him, do you spend less time with your spouse e.t.c. Check and remodel it.
* Open your Heart to Love Again:
Yes, you have to prepare your heart to love again. As you know when you buy a new memory storage, you will be asked to prepare it for new installation by formatting it; that is what a new relationship need. Ready to put in 100% love and trust because the new person is completely different from the last person. Practice the change you have done on yourself on him or her. Give him an extra-ordinary consideration and let him/her see the reason why he/she must not let you go.
* Define your Relationship and Discuss about it.
"Can two walk together, except they agreed?" NO! You should try to define the type of relationship you want to have, agree on what you need in the relationship and what you don't. Tell him if you will love to keep your relationship with or without sex; explain to her what you dont like in girls and what you love her to do; discuss how your issues should be handled when out of hand; discuss, discuss, and discuss...
*Lastly, Make your Partner your Friend:
For a relationship to work perfectly, the two party must have an intimacy which can only be build by friendship. Try to make sure the person you want to make your next partner will be your friend in order to build the intimacy bond. Advantage in making your partner a friend is that you will have time to spend together and have a fun-filled relationship.
Culled From Young Don
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