A MAN....A LION, NOT A CAT.

Built with the strongest of all ever known and ever striving to be relevant and in-charge, a man is not like every other usual creature in the fields but was made tall,strong, absorbent and to be in control. A man was built raw,strong and tick from the scratch in the image of the supreme being to be the protector of the realm.
A man is that person that takes charge, that person that protects, provides and promotes, who stays and doesn't run away from his home in times of turmoil or disappears from his responsibilities. A man assimilates, tolerates and even accommodates the most unusual characters and faces the fiercest battles without thinking of the risks involved which may include his life.

A man is that ever flowing fountain of wisdom that says little but does much when is time for action. He is that physical figure that walks hand in hand with the metaphysical forces of knowledge as he is expected to be a mentor and a tutor to transit the knowledge to people around him and many generations to come.  A man that knows nothing always have nothing to offer. A man not only flow with wisdom but radiates with graceful understanding and is the only being with an understanding of time.  He knows that there is time for everything and is not fooling around with things that doesn't count, matter or add value to his in passing life.

A man is that expert with the ability of hiding emotions but will cry helplessly inside, with the special gift of claiming not to care, but deep down he does. He is that Boy that wants a toy gun not a barbie doll but when he is wiser, he wants a real woman and not a toy gun anymore. He gives love to his wife with all he is and is her Romeo all way round. He fights for his love, radiates when he has sex before breakfast then frowns when he is hungry. He can be a soldier,a doctor or into any profession but does not raise his hands on his woman.
Real men know its not about fathering a child but being a daddy and stays up to nurse his kids. He does not think shallow but meditates on every content before making conclusions.

A real man knows that he came from somewhere and stays connected to his source. He doesn't shy away from his roles and duties like the cat but embraces it like a Lion and with fate, faith and honor knowing he is not alone. A lion defends, provides and protects his own and people around him with pride and confidence. A man is one person you can trust but not all men can be termed ''A MAN'',
but in due season every man  should stand up and be a man as A MAN IS A LION,not a cat.....

A WOMAN...MORE PRECIOUS THAN GOLD.

Created with the finest of materials and embedded with the greatest of Grace; a woman is not just a product made from an ordinary source but was selected, purified, blessed and chosen by the most high God.

A woman was separated, highlighted, dedicated and consecrated to God not because of her beauty but because of her worth, because she is special. Every home, society, sector, fraction, fashion or session begins with a woman. Every soldier, leader, ruler, king, mayor, emperor and even slaves was born by a woman. Being born by a woman is a mark that makes every human being equal and unquestionably the same as long as you are not an alien. A woman cries, weeps, bleeds, smiles, laughs and enjoys every moment of her life. Through the storms, rain and all turmoil of life, a real woman holds on firm.

Like Gold, a woman is born crude and refined. With her future untold and unknown, she moves into the society with only God on her side, she gets to discover her talents and potentials then explores them gradually. She walks through the walls of life trying to make a difference and moves ahead of all the heartbreaks, aches, abuse and all disappointments. Then she goes through the fire and refines into the most beautiful priceless jewel. She is durable, reliable, pure, attractive, inspiring, motivating, captivating and graceful. The words of a woman, soothes and heals all wounds, her smiles gives hope and her touch brings life to every death situation.

When is time for her to love, she loves with all in her; she has no choice. She walks down the aisle with faith ever ready to embrace all that faith brings. She is ever ready to be a supportive and wonderful wife. She is kind to new family, devoted to her husband and sacrificing to her children. Her wisdom cannot be measured but can only be treasured.

A woman is that person that lights up our world, she embraces us with love and peace, turns that sad moment into a celebration. Every man here has a wife, a sister, an aunt, a mother, a daughter or a friend therefore every man is blessed with a woman. If you are a woman here and you don’t have these qualities please check it and retrace your steps, a woman is meant to be a blessing not a curse. If you are blessed here and I am talking about you today, wave your hands into the air.

A woman is a precious being. She is not silver; 
she is not diamond, platinum, sapphire, onyx or Gold. 
She is worth more than every precious stone known to exist. 
She is more precious than GOLD.

DAD MEANS A TRUE KING

From mum's nauseous mornings,
To those her unusual cravings.
From the sleepless nights of fever,
To the rainy show of contractions.
Dad remained my First love and Hero,
Dad has never changed.

From those nights i cried in my cradle,
To the beautiful mornings i smiled at him.
From those moments i shared his meals,
To my early years i got extra sweets.
Dad : Is not a title for every father,
Dad : A title for a true King and Hero.

From the school days to and fro,
Bouncing appointments just to pick me up.
From the teen crazy days i felt i was right,
Trying everything new because i didn't know right,
Dad counselled and reprimand me in love,
Dad had answers to all my questions and fears.












From the beautiful day i walk down the aisle,
To that faithful day my own child i hold.
From the books and memories we shared,
To the very day i look into your old face.
Dad's words will still shape my world,
Dad's footprints can never fade away.


To My Dad; the one man whose words of wisdom and encouragement made
me the Ideal woman i am today and to all the Great Dads all over the world.
''Hoping you all reap what you sowed in the life of your
children and that your labor shall never be in vain''
I Salute and Hail you all !!!

HAPPY FATHERS' DAY!

IT'S ALL ABOUT YOU

DO YOU KNOW THAT;

• YOU ARE SPECIAL.

• YOU CAN NEVER BE SOMEONE ELSE.

• YOU WERE BORN FOR A SEASON.

• YOU CAME FOR MANY REASONS.

• YOU ARE YOUR ONLY TYPE IN STOCK.

• YOU CAN NEVER CHANGE UNTIL YOU DECIDE TO.

• YOU HAVE A PURPOSE.

• YOU HAVE A MISSION.

• YOU CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE.

• YOU CAN CHANGE A LIFE.

• YOU WERE NOT BORN BY ACCIDENT.

• YOU CAN BE ANYTHING YOU CHOOSE TO BE.

MOST IMPORTANTLY THERE CAN NEVER BE ANOTHER YOU.....

MAN....BEFORE YOU MARRY

A man is the most important part of marriage because he is the one that actually starts the process but the woman is as important as a man in the walls of marriage,but before you
marry;

1) YOU NEED TO DISCOVER YOUR PURPOSE:
A man without a purpose is a man without a future,so you must be able to discover your purpose as a man. Now, as a man, what do you want to do or be in life. where are you going because if you don't know where you are going, every road you find yourself will definitely still lead you to no where. Be it a dream, a driving force a skill you need to learn or possibly a lesson well learnt,we all have a purpose on earth.
As a man, you must have a vision or else you have no hope. You must discover your purpose and pursue it with all the courage and might that dwells in you. If you have no Purpose then you cant protect a family as you may not be able to take care of one even if you are given one. You have a purpose, GO find it.

2) YOU DEFINITELY NEED A JOB:
A job is something i define as a platform that provides you a source of income while you fulfill your life purpose. A job creates an avenue for a man to have a genuine source of income and become a more responsible. yes the job could be a trade, a business, a skill or white collar job.A job gets you busy and focused and also tends to increase the respect you can get from women generally. these days education is not enough,a skill is an added advantage and actually needs to be considered. business skills inclusive. As a man you need to move with the world,get computer literate,familiarize with technology and move forward.

3) YOU MUST HAVE UNDERSTOOD WHAT IS IMPORTANT IN LIFE AND WHAT IS NOT:
Yes....i know this very point will raise controversy but the truth be told. Fidus fiddled while Rome burnt. A lot of young men out there are yet to understand the difference between Big Brother Africa and CNN, a book and a porn magazine,a seminar and a night club. Remember you are not getting any younger and you definitely need to start doing things right. Drop all those habits that has never fetched you something.learn some house chores too,it wont kill you to cook,clean and be prepared to assist the woman God will bless you with,both in the home,kitchen, bedroom and all the way round.Just become more home oriented.Put away childish things and prepare yourself to be a husband not a frog tasting waters.One bad effect of keeping many relationships is that you will always end up comparing and wondering which of the ladies is better and you will always find reasons to change your menu because you are unstable,so take a bold step. You are a lion not a cat.

4) YOU NEED A MENTOR NOT A GODFATHER:
This is not a political ground so you need more of a mentor than a godfather. A mentor is a person whose mistakes serves as your stepping stone for you to act better and produce a better result in your marriage but a god father is someone who lacks the ability to understand the difference between a servant and a friend and that is not what you need in your life. A mentor must not be your Pastor but a man whose marriage has gone through thick and thin but was not shaken,a happily married responsible man whose disposition is applauding.A mentor is a reader and a leader who encourages and admonishes when you do things wrong.
A snake begets a snake and same with a Lion,so what are you? A Snake or A Lion!

Just before you think i have forgotten,your relationship with God is very important since you will be leading a home and as such you need all the wisdom you can lay your hands on. If you think the journey will be easy then you may encounter the amputation of divorce and your life may never remain the same. Who prepares a war without been equipped so you need to Pray,meditate,Listen to God,acquire wisdom,read books,attend seminars,training's and also invest your money wisely.What you see is what you get and who you are will attract the partner you deserve.
Remember,The man you are today designs the children you raise tomorrow.